Thursday, February 25, 2010

Arguments

Arguments arises. Conflicts ensues.

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Been bothered by the problems just recently, as well as lately. A close friend of mine unexpectedly burst his bottle and came out threatening another close friend. All on teasing. This is the point where you can add the 'WTF' moments. The situation is childish, it's 'high school', it's unprofessional, it's not how friends should be. I feel like I'm babysitting yet again.

As usual, I'll always go on my non-bias and methodological approach to help fix things, like in any legal court cases. After a couple days of gathering more info from both sides and more liaison, things cooled down between the parties. Ugh..

Another is between me and my father. AGAIN! Found out just today he demands 'respect'. No idea what that would really mean, especially for him, but probably wanting me to act more courteous to him as a father. This would mean I'll need to withstand his constant nagging and other demeaning babbles that will come out of his mouth.


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"You are getting fat!"
"You aren't old enough!"
"You are old enough, but not experienced!"
"You don't know what I've been through!"
"You aren't doing anything at home!"
"Go find a job in the newspapers!"
"Go find a wife!"

"She's the one I want you to marry!"
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I don't know if I can suck up my pride like that, but I'll start slow. I'll start saying "Thank You" and those other mannerisms done as for any friendly strangers. Do a bit of deep breathing before any talks with him and agree with what he says, even if the idea sounds stupid to me. See how this will go...

problem problems problems.

I really need to get pets. They don't argue! I wanr dogs! MORE DOGS!

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